tabbystardust:

lumos-maxima:


Definition: Contrary to what most people think, an  introvert is  not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has  little to do with  being an introvert! Shyness has an element of  apprehension, nervousness  and anxiety, and while an introvert may also  be shy, introversion  itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a  person who is  energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by  being around  other people. Introverts are more concerned with  the inner world of the mind. They  enjoy thinking, exploring their  thoughts and feelings. They often avoid  social situations because being  around people drains their energy. This  is true even if they have good  social skills. After being with people  for any length of time, such as  at a party, they need time alone to  “recharge.” When  introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of   depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from   being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their   own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are   comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly   introspective. Being introspective, though, does not mean that  an introvert never has  conversations. However, those conversations are  generally about ideas  and concepts, not about what they consider the  trivial matters of social  small talk. Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population but only about 25-40% of the general population.


+1.
But I find greatly disturbing that we’re 25-40% of the general population, yet we still have to justify ourselves all of the time for needing that time to be alone to “recharge”. I mean, if you’re not an introvert, you sure have met a healthy dose of them by now, right? People shouldn’t be surprised by our need of space, and even less take it personally - yet it happens. A lot.

tabbystardust:

lumos-maxima:

Definition: Contrary to what most people think, an introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people. Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to “recharge.” When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective. Being introspective, though, does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what they consider the trivial matters of social small talk. Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population but only about 25-40% of the general population.

+1.

But I find greatly disturbing that we’re 25-40% of the general population, yet we still have to justify ourselves all of the time for needing that time to be alone to “recharge”. I mean, if you’re not an introvert, you sure have met a healthy dose of them by now, right? People shouldn’t be surprised by our need of space, and even less take it personally - yet it happens. A lot.



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